566907 Wordpress Website Personalization

My other Wordpress designer disappeared on me, so I am looking for someone reliable. I do not want to post the 2 websites I do here, but here are the basics. I can send a link via private message or something, but I prefer to keep the websites to myself. Each site using Wordpress for content management. One site utilizes WooCommerce, but I don't know how to enable the ability to post comments the products (it's checked to allow them, but you can't post a comment). At this time, I am also hestitant to upgrade to Wordpress 3.3.2 because it will mess up some of the custom settings and formating I have in place. I also want to tweak the format of the main page layout. I would also need a new page template created with specific fields, which I can go into more detail later. It would be an almost duplicate of another template, minute a few things. With the other site, I would like to get WooCommerce (or some other type of ecommerce set up to where you can offer one-time downloads of virtual products) installed and operational. The main page layout need to be tweaked. I would like to install floplayer (or some other type of flash player that would be imbedded on certain page (so a custom field for a link to the location on the server would be awesome), and if possible, something implemented to determine how many times a certain file in the members area has been downloaded. This website uses aMember software to keep up with memberships. I pretty much want to be able to pick and choose which virtual products I want to also offer as individual downloads through WooCommerce (or some other plugin or way to do so). I want to be able to track which products do get downloaded from the membership login side, if that makes sense. This is the basics of what I need. Some things will be thought of along the way. I would like someone reliable and dependable from here on out, to do what I need to both websites when the need arises.